I am attracted to submissive men.

"You don't have to pretend anymore. You don't have to lie to me. And you shouldn't. it is insulting. I see you for who you are. And I love you for it."

“You don’t have to pretend anymore. You don’t have to lie to me. And you shouldn’t. it is insulting. I see you for who you are. And I love you for it.”

I will admit that female led relationships do not always work. And why is that? Because people do not understand that this is not just a pass time. It is not just a game that you get to play until you don’t want to anymore. A real dominant woman is attracted to submissive men.

To see the way he looks at her without attempt to hide his awe is attractive.

To know without a doubt that the trust that he puts in her is stronger that anything you will ever experience is attractive.

To see that he wants her but he also wants her happiness, and he will go against his own needs to fulfill hers, is attractive.

I don’t think that the power exchange that occurs in FemDom relationships is a sign of weakness or a fear that he will not be able to please her otherwise. I think it is a deep connection and understanding that a woman has of her man; and with this understanding, she can bring out parts of himself that he did not even know were there.

And who cares if other people don’t understand that? Who cares if I can’t talk to some of my friends about my relationships because it is that they won’t understand it and they will be frustrated, or think that I think I am better than them.

I am attracted to submissive men and I would not dare say that I am not just to have something ‘vanilla’ to talk about at the next dinner party. Would you?

–Miss Ari ^_^

7 thoughts on “I am attracted to submissive men.

    • But, of course. Not many submissives think of this part of themselves as attractive, and i think maybe some Dommes prefer for them to think that. However, i prefer to be truthful.
      –Miss Ari ☺

      • writingthebody says:

        It is good for us to know that, I must say. When others describe this, I think it helps us…

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