I have no Interest in Being a Dominatrix

Perhaps you misunderstood me. I am a Dominant woman, and I am not here fr YOUR amusement.

Perhaps you misunderstood me. I am a Dominant woman, and I am not here fr YOUR amusement.

It is just something that will never appeal to me for various reasons. But since, there are still some people that don’t understand, Let me breifly explain.
First of all, it’s not real. It’s decidedly fake and dishonorable in my opinion. It in no way involves the connection of a woman dominating a man, because it is the man who initiates it and tells the woman what he wants and he pays her for it. This is not domination; this is an act. It is a false representation of what a real Dominant/submissive relationship is like. You cannot buy domination, because if the submissive is purchasing it, then they are the one in control.

The next reason that I will never be a dominatrix is because I would not stand for that type of treatment. The “bottoms” that think they can buy domination, will come with a list of things they want done to them, and I would be unable to bring myself to preform scenes that I am uninterested in.

Number three is a common occurrence in the BDSM community. A number of men that go to a dominatrix, go to be abused. To them, it is more about the pain than the submission, they don’t expect to have to make an actual commitment or be loyal as a submissive should be. All that they are after is a session to fuel their fantasies. As a dominant woman, I would have a problem with having subs that don’t feel the need to actually be mine.

Lastly, It would simply take up too much of my time and effort that could be better used somewhere else, or on my own personal submissive. To me it would certainly not be worth the money and I certainly would not want to condone sch a practice.

–Miss Ari ^_^

6 thoughts on “I have no Interest in Being a Dominatrix

  1. Sobek says:

    For me as well, the whole thing seems very fake and unsatisfactory. I could never visit a pro dominatrix. A major part of what makes me feel submissive is the thought that a domme is so attracted to me that she wants to do all these things to me to satisfy herself. That feeling would just not be there with a pro dominatrix.

      • Sobek says:

        Thank you. A lot of your perspectives on the relationship between a domme and her sub is quite like what I have in my own relationship with my Mistress and it seems so different from a lot of other femdom blogs.

        For example, this caption that you wrote on your I am attracted to submissive men post:

        “You don’t have to pretend anymore. You don’t have to lie to me. And you shouldn’t. it is insulting. I see you for who you are. And I love you for it.”

        is like someone knows exactly what a sub man would want to hear. Gave me goosebumps. 🙂 And was similar to what my Mistress said to me when she first collared me and pointed to the mirror that showed both of us as we were. It was the most beautiful and fulfilling moment I had ever had in my life up till that point. The feeling is still undescribeable.

        Please keep writing, your outlook on femdom is inspiring.

    • I am glad to be an inspiration. It was very interesting to see things from the opposite point of view. And I am glad to see that I am not alone in this thought frame.
      –Miss Ari ^_^

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