A while ago, I posted that I started offering Disciplinarian services in North Carolina and surrounding areas. A lot of you have been asking so many questions about why? and How? and What? You can read my FAQ section on my new website here.
If you want an in depth look into my Holistic Discipline methods, take a look at the interview I did over at SomeonesGonnaGetIt.WordPress.com
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I went a little overboard, which you all know I do at times, and asked a ton of questions. Very compelling woman and interview. Hope you all enjoy Ms. Ari.
Hi Ari! You found a love of spanking at a very early age, didn’t you?
Yes, I sure did. But it was something that I did suppress for a long while.
Is it true your mom walked in on you spanking all of your dolls?
Yes, that is completely true!
She didn’t think it was odd?
I think she thought it was more entertaining/adorable than anything else.
I agree with her. Were you spanked growing up?
I did not grow up in a house hold of spankings or any other corporal punishment method.
Do you think kids should be?
When it comes to children, I think it depends on the child. Not every kid is at the same cognitive or emotional level and it can be damaging if they are physically punished and they can’t comprehend why. They could start to believe that bad things happen to them no matter what they do and develop a victim mentality. (I won’t go into too much detail, even though I definitely could, lol). I’m not saying it shouldn’t be used as a tool; but I am saying it should never be done out of anger or revenge, and it should only occur if the child has the personality where it would benefit them. Just pay close attention to how it affects them.
Did you play any spanking games with your friends?
Actually, yes. I used to playfully spank some of my college roommates.
I was thinking when you were younger, but that’s more thrilling. Do you remember the first time you gave someone a spanking?
The first person I gave a REAL discipline spanking to happens to be my husband when we first met.
–Miss Ari ^_^